In a new YouTube video showing prep for her new tour, Jennifer Lopez opens up about her first two marriages and why she feels they “don’t count.”

Of course, she’s now engaged to Alex Rodriguez.  She says her marriages to Ojani Noa, from 1997 to 1998, and dancer Cris Judd, from 2001 to 2003, were too short and she was too young. Says she and Alex will get married in a big church wedding next year, which is something she hasn’t done before.

“I’ve been married three times: once was nine months and once was 11 months. So I don’t really count those,”she says.

She adds, “I was married to Marc [Anthony] for 10 years with the kids. I was very young the first two times I tried to get married — I’m saying tried to get married.”

J.Lo admits in the past, she got married for the wrong reasons.

“It seems like in this life you’re always surrounded by people so you’re never lonely but it’s very lonely,” she says. “…So I felt like if I got married, then I would always have somebody, but that’s not how life works. That’s not how it goes. It’s bad reason to get married.”

 

 

 

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